First and foremost, happy new year to all my dear readers. I know, I know, it is a bit too late for wishing that, but I’ve been quite busy these past few days. Well, not really. I just didn’t feel the urge to log in, kind of like a self imposed exile from all such things, but anyway, I am back now.
So how about those new year’s resolutions, eh? Everyone seems to be getting one, and a drastic one at that. People who have never seen a sunrise in their lives vowing to wake up everyday at 5 AM for exercises, or dope headed dipsomaniacs vowing to never touch a drink again. I’ve also had my share of such ridiculous resolutions but I’ve grown out of that phase now. The term “new year” doesn’t really mean much to me. Don’t get me wrong though, having long term goals in your personal and professional lives are really important and the beginning of an arbitrary new year only seems to be the perfect opportunity to start over, but the real problem here is low high the attrition rate is. The same people who had early risin’ as their new year resolution would be seen dozing off until 9:11 in the morning, and the dipsomaniac would be seen gulping down drinks after drinks after the supposed 3 day “dry spell” that was the first three days of the new year resolution.
My point here is, because of the drop outs, the new year resolution thing has become somewhat of a cliche. I recently visited The Daily Post of WordPress and saw that the first “First Friday” thread of the year had more than 800 comments. Usually, the count is somewhere between 250-400. Curious, I entered the thread to find an unusual amount of new blogs, which made me happy and sad at the same time. Happy, because a lot of new people taking up a great hobby that is blogging, and sad because a vast majority of these blogs would be abandoned within a month or two. The ones which actually would survive would also decrease to posting only once or twice a year, mostly at the beginning of the year. (Can you see a pattern developing here?)
Hence, my only appeal to the newbies of any hobby, be it blogging, exercising, or photography is that try and stick with it. If you got sick of it within a week, then you probably didn’t give it your best shot. If time constraint is a big problem, try taking up a hobby/resolution which isn’t too time consuming. A lot of people overdo such stuff within the first week or two, run out of steam, realize they’re not good at it (example: not seeing results within the first week at the gym) and completely leave it never to return again (until the first week of the next year). So yeah, pace yourself.
As always, my best wishes are with you all. Please do follow me on Twitter and if you ever want to get in touch you can contact me.
Much love,
–SG
Happy new year…Wish you a shining year ahead 🙂
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Thanks Riya wish you the same. 🙂
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Well written! I agree!
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OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH! Now that makes sense. That’s why there is a lot more comment on this week’s Community Pool than normally. I guess I did not think about it because 98% of the 201/2018 posts I’ve encountered have actually been about people giving up on new year resolutions.
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Resolutions, shmesolutions… I resolve to continue living my life and providing for my family to the best of my ability. That’s challenging enough without having to complicate it further!
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Hahaha!! Well said. 🙂
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Conveyed like a true prodigy.
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Absolutely true! I’m experiencing similar feelings right now! Glad to find a like minded human out there🌸
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Haha thank you Shreya the feeling is mutual
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That’s a great piece of advice and honestly I also try that a lot.
Happy New Year 🙂
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Wish you the very same.
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Simple but good advice for all New Year Resolutioners!! Your posts are always lucid and well-articulated. Keep it up and have a great year ahead. 🙂
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Thank you ma’am. 🙂
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Wish you too a very happy new year 😊😊👌👍
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I wish you happy and blessed New year full mirackles and full really good friends with many beautiful moments 🙂
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Thank you and wish you the same
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Tnx 🙂
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Happy ew year and wish you to fulfill your dream and resolution.
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Thanks TechFlax
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May you be able to realize your dreams. All the best for 2018.
Tanja
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Thank you so much. 🙂
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Happy New year TSG and followed on Twitter
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Thanks and wish you a happy new year too. 🙂
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Resolutions, whether on New Year’s Day or any other time, really do need to be reasonable and taken slowly, otherwise youa re setting yuorself up for failure. Well done!
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Happy new year 🙂 🙂
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Happy new year this is so Well written love it💚
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So finally u appear. Happy New Year. Good to get a heartful read.
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All best wishes for 2018 and no bugs on wordpress, I know you don’t like them 😉
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Haha no one does.
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Happy New Year! Blogging seems to be in decline..help to keep it up.
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I shall do my best.
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You dodged the real question buddy, what is YOUR new year’s resolution?
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I didn’t dodge any questions, I’ve mentioned that I don’t make any resolutions now.
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Very well articulated, many slip up for sure in this journey, let passion be their driving force in this blogging field
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I too struggle with New Year resolutions. I’d like to think that if I really wanted to start/change/improve something, I would do it regardless of the time of year. I always find the start of a year difficult anyway, that ‘here we go again’ feeling, so not going to give myself added pressure! 😉 HNY to you 🙂
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I am new in this world.
I will stick to it as you wrote and gove my best
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I can’t tell you how happy it makes me feel to know that.
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Just started blogging (ironically) at the beginning of this year and I wanted to say a) WOW did not know the community pool is usually so small, I guess I didn’t have any context for that and b) great post! I think resolutions are usually such a mixed bag. Here’s to hoping I make it through the month *crosses fingers*
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Happy new year!
I totally agree. The idea of resolutions can become quite cliched, and they’re known more for being easily dropped, rather than for being upheld.
I prefer to focus on making small, sustainable changes to daily habits, which slowly build up to being a new goal. For example, if someone says they want to lose weight, but have never stepped foot in a gym, I would recommend taking a 30 minute walk 3 times a week, then increasing the frequency, intensity, and duration slowly over time.
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Happy new year to everyone may you be blessed and successful.i really hope i accomplish my new years resolution which is really socializing and making new friends this year also to really try to get my blog in an order
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Some very practical advice there, thanks for sharing your ideas and have a great year ahead!
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Resolutions !Hmmm ! Like say some ‘promises are made to be broken ‘maybe same goes for new year resolutions .
Nice thought though .
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Thanks infinite waves
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I shall do my best.
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Happy New Year! I’m wondering if any bloggers I followed have “dropped out.” Meanwhile, I know I should be posting more.
Thank you for liking my grammar post!
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