Life is full of changes, big or small. A different route to go to your office is a change. Getting a different milkman is change. Getting a big promotion and moving abroad is a change.
Some of us embrace the changes in our lives, some even look forward to them. Some others, however, utterly despise them. These people want everything to remain exactly the same for months, years, decades even, and complain and whine away every time anything new or fresh happens.
For such people, things changing signify the ultimate end. It makes them realize that everything they hold dear to themselves will. indeed, come to an end someday. They just can’t seem to come to terms with the humbling realization. Yet, whether they like it or not, change is bound to happen, no matter how hard they try to stop it.
I, on the other hand, have a different take on the subject altogether. I feel that small insignificant things change all the time and one should not get caught up in them. What needs to be looked at is the bigger picture.
Think in terms of nature. Even after millions of years of this planet, floods still happen, volcanoes still erupt, lightning still strikes. Sure, earth has come a long way forward by supporting life, evolving from single cell organisms to dinosaurs to human beings and beyond. In the future, there will be utter annihilation and mass extinction and end of life as we know it, but even then some other planet, maybe Mars, would start supporting life and the endless cycle would repeat. In the larger scheme of things, there is no change. Just like the cycle of reincarnation.
Now, think in terms of the human society. Even after thousands of years of technological advancements, education, multiple cultural renaissances, extended periods of time of multiple forms of government, scams still happen, rapes still happen, murder still happens.
We have all the physical comforts available to us, but do we ever behave different (in instinctual terms) from our ancestors? There were sane people back then and there are sane people now. Then, the King’s son got away scot free for murder, and today a politician’s son gets away with rape scot free.
Earlier, doctors did not have the means/expertise to treat the patient and as a result, the patient used to die. Now, big hospitals prescribe hundreds of tests and transplants, run up bills valuing lakhs of rupees and still, the patient dies. In the bigger scheme of things, where is the change?
No matter how safe and sound we make our society, there are going to be miscreants and of course, there is going to be mother nature. Some things never change and it has rightly been said so.
What do you think of the above topic? If you indeed think that we can effect change, at least in our human society, please share how you would be going about it? The comments section is wide open. For any personal interaction or request for collaboration, you can contact me here or DM me on Twitter.
Much love,
–SG
Yeah I agree with your perspective as well. I would like to add one more thing that doesn’t change i.e. Human Nature😅
Great post!
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Haha. I thought I implied that in my human society section. After all whatever we do is a product of our human nature.
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Nature is always value neutral.
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Change is a part of life and we must always be prepared for that.
Enjoyed reading your post
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well written. 🙂 But i m still worried little, about shifting to a new place 😛
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Don’t worry. None of it will matter in the end. 😛
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hmm.okay 🙂
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Nature vs nurture
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Thought-provoking.
I don’t like change if it breaks a working well thing.
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We laugh now at the doctors who treated the plague, with headdresses like birds and their weird list of infallible cures….but we should look at the doctors of our own times with their own list of treatments which still manage to kill…
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How true Helen. Very well said.
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Totally, nothing changes in the long perspective if we see, the change that is happening we feel is actually a monotony of something thats happened before. Deep n philospical approach….
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Yeah. Yeah. By the way nice pic, earlier you always used to put a photo of you in a car. 😀 It is nice to see some change now.
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Nothing like in particular. I use the picture which so ever is good. Thank u. Bdw very nice post.
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I have a feeling that all your pictures look good. 🙂
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Ha ha…
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Changes happen all the time ,every minute, every second.
But we hate those that push us out of our comfort zone.
Your reasoning for change between past and present is correct for the end result is the same.
What happens in the process is transitory.
What is permanent is the final result
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such a great read.Can’t wait to read more from you.
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Thank you for the kind words Neha. 🙂
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Without change, life is boring.
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Apart the main topic, which was done quite nicely, what I find interesting is your subtle reference to the latest rape case, the name evades me. I don’t know, maybe I am reading too much in between the lines, I probably am. I haven’t slept in a while. Anyway, what I wanted to say was why don’t you write about the astifa case and the Unnao case. I would really like to listen to your take on this.
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Call me buzdil but I wouldn’t touch a topic like that with a 20 foot pole.
The thing is, there is outrage, news articles, articles by “intellectuals”, political agendas all tied to such horrendous cases but you gotta ask yourself, will they be talking about it a few weeks from now?
One of the perpetrators of the nibhaya rape case is still walking free, and he was just a common guy. These people are MLAs and people with connections, do you really think there will be justice?
Even if there is, will that be enough?
I, of course, don’t want any entity, be it a human being or animal to get raped, but the sad truth is these things have been happening ever since the dawn of life and will continue long after we’re gone. Now let me ask you this, do things ever change?
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Sadly enough, I too think the same, and really can’t blame for this. It’s funny you should mention the Nirbhaya case, because I was literally on the exact same spot half an hour before the incident. I was 10, but it shook me, because all I could think was how easily it could have been me. I keenly followed the news, but the punishment was unsatisfactory, to put it mildly. I really don’t think any substantial change is going to happen, but call me naïve maybe, I hope it is slightly better. I mean one of the rapist is still free, but atleast Nirbhaya case started the conversation, renewed some archaic laws. And even if the MLA does not get punished, we can atleast talk about the Hindu Ekta Manch (I still don’t understand how they sleep at night.)
Anyway, I’d say the real buzdil is me because I can’t even watch the news anymore because it is full of gory details I don’t want to know. I really want to live in my privileged bubble until I have to realise that there is no bubble.
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That must have been a terrible few days for you. I am glad you’re safe and sound and totally not traumatized by the incident.
I agree that one step at a time, we can try to make things better. If we try, we may succeed we may not succeed, but if we don’t even try, we will definitely not succeed and these Haiwans would have their way as usual.
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True man, so damn true.
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Great post. Over the last few years I had to deal with a lot of transitions. My children left for college, I moved to TEXAS and job changes. I learned that if I cant change a situation I can change my attitude towards it. It doesn’t help to whine and complain when the inevitable is occurring. So now I lean into the changes, both the good and bad. I don’t run or fuss or hide. I embrace change, big and small.
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https://anshikaseth.wordpress.com/2018/04/17/to-the-man-ill-always-love/ gud one! Plz cheak out mine one too! I tried
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Great post
Pls see this
https://reveuse014.wordpress.com/2018/04/24/if-it-doesnt-challenge-you-it-doesnt-change-you/
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Thanks for the link. I’ll check it when I get the time. 🙂
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Sure 😊
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